Stop Neglecting This Networking Key To Building Relationships
There's a world beyond the DM, remember...
Hey Gorgeous,
Life has been really crazy recently, I’m sorry I didn’t get anything out to you last week, but I’m back with some more tips and tricks so I hope you find this valuable 🫶
In today’s fast-paced digital world, it’s so easy to get caught up in online interactions. Between LinkedIn messages, Zoom meetings, and social media, it can feel like we’re more connected than ever.
But here’s the truth—real, in-person connections are irreplaceable.
No matter how much we network online, there’s something powerful about building relationships face-to-face.
The Importance of Genuine Human Interaction
While staying connected online is important, it’s crucial not to detach from genuine human interaction.
In-person networking allows us to foster deeper connections, read body language, and build trust in ways that just aren’t possible through a screen.
When you meet someone in person, you get a real sense of who they are—something that algorithms and profiles can never fully capture.
But here’s the problem: as the world shifts more and more online, many people are neglecting the art of real-world connection.
It’s affecting our conversational skills, our ability to build genuine relationships, and ultimately, our success in both personal and professional spaces.
Breaking the Ice: Start Small, Build Confidence
I get it—approaching people in person can be daunting, especially if you’re used to the comfort of online interactions.
But if this feels scary to you, that’s all the more reason to get started. Building confidence in face-to-face interactions is like a muscle—you’ve got to work it out.
Here’s a simple way to start: the next time you’re out and about, set yourself a goal to say "hi" or "good morning" to 5 people.
It doesn’t have to be a deep conversation—just open the dialogue. Watch how people react, and notice how your own confidence builds with each interaction.
If even this feels terrifying, try using the '5 Second Rule'. Count down from 5, and when you hit 1—just do it.
The more you practice this, the easier it will become. And trust me, the courage you build from these small actions will translate into bigger, bolder steps in your networking journey.
For the Confident Networkers: Take It to the Next Level
If you’re already comfortable chatting with others, push yourself further.
Attend in-person networking events, join groups, or participate in retreats that align with your interests.
These environments are perfect for deepening connections and expanding your network in meaningful ways.
When you build relationships in person, you’re laying the foundation for long-lasting connections. These relationships can evolve into beautiful friendships, lead to business opportunities, and open up even more networks that might have remained closed if you only connected online.
Final Thoughts: Nurture Your Real-World Connections
So, babe, while the digital world offers convenience, don’t forget the magic that happens when you connect with someone face-to-face.
Challenge yourself to step out of your comfort zone, start small, and gradually build up your confidence.
And if you’re already comfortable with in-person networking, keep pushing the boundaries and nurturing those real-world connections.
After all, the best opportunities often come from the people we connect with on a personal level. So get out there, make those connections, and watch as your world expands in ways you never imagined.
Stay bold, stay connected, and keep shining,
xoxo,
Olyasha 💖