Listen,
Who doesn’t want more confidence?
Who doesn’t want to walk into a room and have all eyes on THEM?
Who doesn’t want to seem like THAT girl?
But it’s so hard to actually be confident.
No matter how many affirmations you do, or how many crystals you rub…it doesn’t work.
Why?
Because you have it all wrong.
You’ve been trying to gather the confidence the wrong way this entire time.
You see, confidence isn’t something that you can fake…which is what most girls get wrong.
Confidence is something you have to embody, something that comes from within YOU.
Now,
How do you do that?
You have to use your past accomplishments as a driving force.
Recall your past accomplishments and realize that you’re much more of a badass than you think you are.
No matter how small the win may be, use it to enhance your self-image.
Because your self-image is your confidence.
The higher you think of yourself, the better you will act.
The more you love yourself, the more other people will be attracted to you.
You see, your subconscious always catches up to your self-image.
If a girl perceives herself to be ugly, her subconscious will catch up to that and she will subconsciously begin to act like an ugly girl would.
She will stop sleeping a full 8 hours.
She will stop eating clean.
She will stop exercising.
She will stop putting effort into her appearance.
Because she literally believes herself to be that type of person.
On the other hand, if a girl perceives herself to be pretty.
Her subconscious will catch up and she will automatically begin doing all the habits a pretty girl would.
Sleeping 8 hours
Eating clean
Exercising
Putting effort into her appearance
That’s just how it works.
It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Real confidence is built from within, which is why it never crumples.
Fake confidence is like weak armor, it falls within a few hits.
Before others recognize you,
You have to recognize YOURSELF.
xoxo,
Olyasha💖